F YOU BRING ME SAUCE WITHOUT HAVING TO ASK, THEN I LOVE YOU…
There’s a part of Florida covered with wiry trees called Caribbean Pines. They thrive in really deadly environments. They stick out drought and fire, and hold their own against hurricanes. If trees were horror films these guys would have twenty sequels. In fact, if you plant them in the sort of setting trees should love, they’re so hardcore they just shrivel and die rather than live on like a normal tree.
When things get *too* comfortable, your relationship actually shrivels. The odd blast of wilderness can be genuinely good for it. Sometimes, then, relationships go through difficult times in order for us to see what’s in our heart – is it made of the good, solid stuff that trusts in what you saw in that person first – and to mature it, to chip away at the raw material of our life to get to the true and better person inside.
So when rough times look like they’re about to sweep in, bring it on!
Look back on the last three months. What hard times have you been brought through? What good things have come from them that couldn’t have happened otherwise? Hence this phase above – re-read it and you know what will jump start the love story.
Awww so sweeet
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